Honoring Rabbi Gavriel Holtzberg and Rebbetzin Rivka Holtzberg, Martyrs of the Jewish People Who Died in Mumbai
Ruvy
As Mumbaikars mourn their many dead and comfort their many injured, Rabbi Holtzberg and his pregnant wife were buried in Jerusalem today.
It may not be clear what the Haba"d does or why. Let this tale from my own life be an illustration.
When I was living on the streets of Saint Paul twenty-five years ago, there were barely any Jewish agencies to help homeless Jews. But there was the Haba"d House. On a cold winter day I walked from downtown to a large residence in the Highland Park neighborhood and knocked on the door. I was tired and hungry. I was welcomed in as though I were a lost son.
The rabbi didn't care that I didn't know what blessings to say over the food (I do now). The rabbi didn't care whether I was dressed as he deemed a Jew ought to dress. He didn't care that I had not said the afternoon prayer or the evening prayer. None of this interested him. The Rabbi offered me food. He was concerned that I had not eaten a decent meal, and insisted on feeding me a decent meal. He asked how it was that I came to be homeless. The story was simple and I told it to him.
I ate, drank some soda. I ate some more. When I was satisfied and full he made his proposition: if I wanted, he would pay for my transport to study Torah, Talmud and all the things a Jew should concentrate on learning. This would be either in Jerusalem or in Brooklyn. I was interested. I wanted very much to go to Israel. But I didn't want to grow the beard I had shaven off in law school; I already had a streak of white hair in my beard from the spot I had pulled at and pulled at in tension trying to comprehend principles in case law. I had forgotten how to wrap tefillin around my arm and head and it embarrassed me terribly (I know now). And most of all, as nice as this guy was, I didn't want to lose my intellectual independence.
So I thanked the rabbi, and told him I would get back to him with an answer in a few days. I never did. He knew he had not made his sale. But, nevertheless, he paid for a motel room for me to sleep in. I showered, and shaved and cleaned all the dirt from the street off of me. I watched cable TV. The next morning I was a homeless bum again.
This rabbi did for me what Rabbi Gavriel Holtzberg and his wife Rivka, z"l, hy"d (may their souls be remembered for blessings and may G-d avenge their blood), did for thousands and thousands of Jews passing through Mumbai. They served kosher meals, they explained Torah and Law and tried to do with each of these Jews what the rabbi at the St. Paul Haba"d House had attempted to do with me - to draw me closer to G-d. They gave them a place to sleep and rest their weary heads.
That is their mission. That is the mission the Lubavicher Rebbe gave them many years ago - to reach out and get Jews to perform mitzvót - commandments and good deeds - and thus draw them to G-d bit by bit. If asked, they will explain to non-Jews the Seven laws of Noah, which we Jews believe to be universal laws upon all of mankind. But they will not proselytize nor attempt to convince a non-Jew to become a Jew, nor will they preach the Seven Laws of Noah.
Last week, terrorists, whose actual aims remain unclear, tortured and murdered Rebbetzin Rivka Holtzberg along with seven other Jews at the Haba"d headquarters in the Nariman House in Mumbai, a place they had carefully targeted. Just before Indian Commandos liberated the Nariman House, they murdered Rabbi Gavriel Holtzberg. His body was found still warm. And that is why they were buried today. Another couple will continue their work in Mumbai. The Haba"d will not be deterred by the evil of a terrorist. They will light not merely a candle in the darkness, they will light a torch to drive away the darkness.
This link is a You tube video of an Israel National News report of the funeral of Rav Gavriel and Rebbetzin Rivka Holtzberg, zikhronám l'brakhá v'HASHEM y'nakém damám. It is about eight minutes long. I ask you to watch. It says more than this Jew in the mountains of Samaria can, no matter how hard he tries. Rav Holtzberg and his wife Rivka are survived by their son Moshe; may he become a great man in Israel.
ברוך דיין האמתBLESSED IS THE TRUE JUDGE











Ruvy, born in New York, moved to Minnesota where he managed a Burger King and wrote stories. In addition to writing for
Deepti Lamba
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December 3, 2008
01:46 AM
Ruvy, I'm at a loss for words. So many innocent people have died including those in the law enforcement agencies.
Kindness goes a long way.
The little boy's parents lived and died as heroes. His loss can never be made up. I hope he gets to know his parents through those whose lives his parents touched.
Thank you for honoring them on DC.
kerty
December 3, 2008
02:23 AM
Ruvy
Of all the tragic images in this gruesome ordeal, that of Rabi and his wife remain most painful embodiment of the horror - so young, so full of life, so dedicated to serve people and G-d but snuffed out in the prime of their life in the most mindless and gruesome manner. I dread to imagine what would have been like for them to live thru those last 60 minutes of the captivity and terror - I have tried to put myself in their shoes to imagine what it would have been like, but words simply can describe the evil. The words simply are not enough. I pray their death will not go in vain - I pray it makes us stronger and more resolute than ever before.
commonsense
December 3, 2008
03:29 AM
beyond heart-wrenching. the image of moshe, just after he was rescued from nariman house, haunts me.
Vinod Joseph
December 3, 2008
05:19 AM
The tragedy at Nariman House is too sad to be described in words. Moshe survived, thanks to the courage of his nanny Sandra Samuel who grabbed Moshe and ran past the terrorists who might have killed him otherwise.
Read the story of Sandra Samuel's courage here: http://edition.cnn.com/2008/WORLD/asiapcf/12/02/moshe.mumbai/index.html
smallsquirrel
December 3, 2008
06:57 AM
thank you for this touching piece. we can only hope against hope this never repeats itself.
the holtzbergs have more than one child. they have another dying of tay-sachs in a hospital somewhere in Israel.
Ruvy
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December 3, 2008
07:54 AM
I wasn't going to write this piece. But I saw the clip of the funeral at K'far Haba"d and had to. It was the least I could do for the families of the martyred couple.
Thank you all for your kind words.
The heroine in all of this from my own eyes was indeed Sandra Samuel, who showed real guts in defying the terrorists and real moxie in saving Moshe Holtzberg. This blog posting by Mike Licht describes how it will be that Ms. Samuel will be able to remain in Israel. She is indeed, one of the "Righteous Among the Nations". From Mike Licht's article:
Aditi
December 3, 2008
12:50 PM
So well written. I think when we put a little bit of ourselves into a written piece, it tranforms itself from an essay into something more human and relatable. Your story is touching and highlights the good that religious organizations can do.
Among a collection of pictures of the aftermath of the Mumbai attack, I saw a picture of little Moshe crying at a memorial service at a synagogue in Mumbai and it is heart-wrenching. He is two and does not understand the concept of death or loss but he can feel their absence and in this picture he looks like he is mourning the death of his parents.
http://www.boston.com/bigpicture/2008/12/mumbai_after_the_smoke_has_cle.html
Jaffna
December 4, 2008
12:11 PM
Ruvy,
Shalom and Namaskar. Thank you for writing this.
That was a remarkable couple. May the good work that they did continue in the years ahead to bind our two great civilizations in a shared humanity.
The Rabbi and his wife will live on in their righteousness.
'It is not born,
it does not die;
having been,
it will never not be;
unborn, enduring,
constant, and primordial,
it is not killed
when the body is killed.'
'weapons do not cut it,
fire does not burn it,
waters do not wet it,
wind does not wither it.'
Ruvy
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December 4, 2008
03:30 PM
Jaffna,
Thank you for your kind words and for the verses.
I offer you two thoughts by way of thanks. The first is that our ancient civilization and yours probably have similar roots - but delving into those roots might be difficult here and now on this particular forum. The second is that if you do Facebook, stop by the Indo-Judaica Group. The Rav and Rebbetzin, z"l, hy"d, were not the only ones who could bind our civilizations in shared humanity. We can also.
Shalom and Namaskar,
Reuven
Ruvy
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December 4, 2008
03:35 PM
Aditi,
"So well written"
You do not know how much the writer in me hungers to see words like that about his work. Especially, since it was written when I was exhausted, at 03:00.
Thank you....
Ruvy
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December 5, 2008
04:49 AM
Today, in an interview with CNN, Sandra Samuel insisted she was not a hero. "Who thinks of death when there is a baby in the room," she said.
She also said she would only return to India when Moshe Holtzberg no longer needed her.
She may not view herself as a heroine, but she'll never have trouble getting a job taking care of infants again, should that be her desire....
Keerthi
December 5, 2008
05:10 AM
Simple and unassuming individuals like Sandra Samuel give us hope at times such as these. She had done an act of immense merit or punya in safeguarding an innocent life. There is no greater merit than what we call 'Abhaya dana' - i.e. the gift of protection offered to those in distress. Hinduism, like Judaism, celebrates life. Sandra is truly blessed.
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