http://desicritics.org/ Superior South Asian bloggers on Culture, Media, Politics, Sport, Business, and Technology. en Copyright 2006 by the authors Thu, 1 Mar 2007 11:22:11 EST http://backend.userland.com/rss BC custom software http://desicritics.org/2007/03/01/103436.php#comment-113915 Ooops sorry! The earlier comment was by me. 113915@desicritics.org Thu, 1 Mar 2007 11:22:11 EST http://desicritics.org/2007/03/01/103436.php#comment-113904 Was good to read about your experience. The reason I turned away the unwanted guest was precisely because I didn't want to smoulder with resentment for days after the visit the way people usually do. Within a few minutes of this visitor having gone away I felt unmentionable relief tinged with a feeling of regret that I could have handled the situation better. For the record, we are still on speaking terms. I just got an SMS from my friend asking if I would like to adopt "two sweet cats" which someone she knows is trying to give away. (The answer is NO). 113904@desicritics.org Thu, 1 Mar 2007 11:20:06 EST