Desicritics Comments on Simple Marital Problems Can Lead to Fatal Consequences

Comment by Sumanth

Fri, 26 Feb 2010 21:13:20 EST

Tragic consequences due to unscientific methods applied by society to "marital problems": ------- Most of the domestic violence in India or world is Mutually Initiated (initiated by both male and female). However, the society does not want to deal that. Society wants to play a blame game and enjoys it as people die. Lives can be saved if things are de-escalated with counseling to both as early as possible. ------ MLA Abhay Singh (34) had a heated argument with wife Soni Singh around 3am. An hour or so later, three gunshots were heard from Abhay's quarters. Jumping out of their bed, the family members rushed to find the room locked from inside. They smashed the glass-panes of the door, only to see Abhay, Soni and their daughter Rashi lying on the blood-splattered floor. http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/india/Bihar-MLA-kills-wife-kid-turns-gun-on-self/articleshow/5622796.cms

Comment by Egg-Jaktly

Sat, 19 Apr 2008 03:06:00 EDT

With these rising trends, we might start seeing opposite trend of this --> http://desicritics.org/2008/04/17/102651.php Start 'Male Foeticide', would be parents! Your son is gonna face real hell in the hands of feminists! Kill him before he comes to this world! Women Rejoice at your victory! Before the Jehadis succeed in making the planet non-muslim free, you'll succeed in making it MALE-Free!

Comment by ravi

Thu, 27 Mar 2008 01:17:14 EDT

correction in #105 some people in place of some person.. :)

Comment by ravi

Thu, 27 Mar 2008 01:15:41 EDT

No temporal, I have never been in that situation. But i know i put some person in that situation,esp... some pseudo...etc.

Comment by temporal

Thu, 27 Mar 2008 01:01:35 EDT

still in strait jacket? ;)

Comment by ravi

Thu, 27 Mar 2008 00:59:19 EDT

Temporal #100 get well soon...

Comment by Andy

Wed, 26 Mar 2008 20:28:30 EDT

You guys seriously need a break. Looks like you ppl have taken over DC ! I can see both sides of the argument. But looks like they can't see each others. Like I said somewhere else, the incident is unfortunate. Learn from it. Acknowledge that the misuse of the laws could have been the final straw for Amit. At the same, time it was not right for Amit to kill her. He probably did not have many options and when you have a cheating wife who can take away your future, throw you into jail and can condemn you to a slow death, the emotional toll is high. But there could have been other solutions. Maybe, he should have paid Rinku a couple of crores to avoid being jailed while she could live with her lover. or maybe, we all could have united against these unjust laws and averted this tragedy. In any case, learn from it and acknowledge that what Amit did was not really right, but at the same time, the fear of the misuse of law might have been too much for him. Andy

Comment by Avinash

Wed, 26 Mar 2008 19:54:52 EDT

:)anytime temporal.

Comment by temporal

Wed, 26 Mar 2008 17:26:38 EDT

#98: the end note is classic :)

Comment by ravi

Wed, 26 Mar 2008 17:04:42 EDT

Avinash My points are valid at any end. I already understood what you told. But it is you, as you said that you don't understand my points,need to read my comment once again. And don't you know the famous statement "men are from Mars, women are from Venus, according to that all men are from mars, i too agree. But some men who came from mars are now joined in mental hospital with psychological problems such as pseudo-equality, pseudo-secularism, pseudo-empowerment, pseudo...etc. So it is tough for them to understand what normal people say. so i wish they will get well soon...

Comment by Avinash

Wed, 26 Mar 2008 12:29:54 EDT

Ravi baby This is a little high end discussion, kindly read my comments again and understand the reference to context. It has been observed many times other commentators cannot undertand you and we cannot understand you. Well, the communication between mars and earth is such! Please refrain from appreciating my thinking...you have a long way to go bachu!

Comment by ravi

Tue, 25 Mar 2008 21:33:54 EDT

Avinash #91 I appreciate your thinking capabilities, but filing false cases on spouse never comes under graceful exit. What sumanth wrote is not about acid throwing cases or eve teasing cases. He wrote about murders and suicides which have a background of harassment. It is not a surprise to anyone, as you know only criminals, you made that post. But ignoring the victims is another kind of harassment that society commit against them.we should not do that, isn't it?

Comment by Avinash

Tue, 25 Mar 2008 14:53:30 EDT

Gope The information you have put up is private and you could be held for defamation of character. Have you lost your senses at age 80 or you just don't care?

Comment by Vardhan

Tue, 25 Mar 2008 14:48:17 EDT

thanks for your good byes.

Comment by Avinash

Tue, 25 Mar 2008 14:35:15 EDT

exactly..i have no answers to stupid questions. whoohooo. Good bye.

Comment by vardhan

Tue, 25 Mar 2008 14:31:35 EDT

thank you avinash, I got to know you have no answers but you refer to sumanth.

Comment by Gope Lalwani

Tue, 25 Mar 2008 14:23:24 EDT

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Comment by Gope Lalwani

Tue, 25 Mar 2008 14:22:12 EDT

[Do not personal ifnormation here]

Comment by Avinash

Tue, 25 Mar 2008 14:21:51 EDT

OJ Simpson is an ideal example. The world knows that he is a criminal who also murdered his wife because she wanted to leave him. Being a man myself and I know the thinking of screwed up insecured men who are controlling and cannot accept a gaceful exit from a relationship. This obsession of theirs makes them commit terrible crimes like throwing acid on their girl friends, throwing acid on innocent girls who have declined their proposals, killing their wives etc. The dumb fuck questions you have asked deserve on answer. Go to sumath who will asnwer them for you. "how many firs do you register on a single husband." husband and single....get your fundamentals right. And correction...i don't know sif people..i know the sniffer criminals. :)

Comment by Vardhan

Tue, 25 Mar 2008 14:11:47 EDT

Now OJ simpson is not needed in this context. So which laws you wnat on men? how many firs do you register on a single husband.

Comment by Avinash

Tue, 25 Mar 2008 14:07:16 EDT

No one hear is shedding tears so stop hallucinating. People, society, intellectuals, readers and even the cops( who have registered a case against the retard-Amit) are leaving no stone unturned to curse Amit. His own friends have not stood by him. His selfish parents will have tough times ahead and will bear the consequences. And for the rest of the sniffers, who cares about them when majority of them are out on bail, some absconding and wanted or hiding in the west and the rest who are scott free are no different from OJ Simpson. Their credibility was washed when an FIR was written against them.

Comment by Vardhan

Tue, 25 Mar 2008 14:06:26 EDT

avinash, personally you know so many SIF people. now which party are you on, hillary or girija based on the number you dial

Comment by Avinash

Tue, 25 Mar 2008 14:01:07 EDT

Are you drunk when you wrote this? Your sniffers(indian and non-indian) cannot make a meager sharity and break into a fight with you at any given point. They cannot stand you. Wake up and smell the coffee. Your political agenda seem very bleak to me. Society is not scared of ghosts like you! Your empty threats, name calling and data which is not validated hold no ground. Personally I know what a coward Dorky is ...even more than Amit.

Comment by Sumanth

Tue, 25 Mar 2008 13:52:42 EDT

Its time society and pseudo-intellectuals realise that anyone (male or female), who threatens or attacks an innocent man and his innocent family can end up paying a huge price. There is no point in shedding tears now. Its a fact that feminists have misled women and made them believe that they have a license to abuse husbands because of all kinds of biased laws enacted. They are terribly mistaken. Their calculation has gone terribly wrong. All the leading feminists in Bangalore are hiding inside the rat holes. Men are in any case disposable. There is nothing new if one talks about lynching and hanging men. But, whatever is done to men, the same will happen to women sooner or later. ------------------------------ Amit is a Martyr for many. Because, he made a major shift in the thinking in the society that it is harmless for women, if they continue living with a distressed man. ------------------------------ It is not just the Siffers, but the society which is fast losing its sympathy for women. All because of misdeeds promoted in the name of women's empowerment. ------------------------------ ------------------------------

Comment by vardhan

Tue, 25 Mar 2008 13:45:35 EDT

So you want more laws for men?